Surprise!!!!!

Well I got a lovely surprise today.... My sweet hubby came home with me a nice little gift today...He got me an iPad!!!!! I can't believe it! So Iam laying in bed right now blogging on it. I think it will takemea little bit to get used to it but I think that I will love it! Well I already know that I do love it!! I am sure that I will be up way too late playing on it tonight.:) after having such a blahh day it has ended pretty well. Visited with Mel and Michelle this evening, which was nice. We always talk about the craziest shit and laugh our asses off. Good times..god times.:)

**Monday** :(

Oh Monday....you really suck! :) I feel like crappy crap today!!! My tummy and my head are killing me! Blah for this day! I am off work on Friday.:) That makes me smile!! The hubby has to take a test in Dallas and Abby and I will be going along for the ride. Abby love to travel with her Momma and Daddy!!! I am pretty excited about it. I hope to get a little shopping in too! ;) I hope the weather is nice this weekend.

Hope ya'll have a wonderful Monday....ummm if that is possible. :) Later.......

Weekend Wrap Up!!

Well well, here it is Sunday and time for the work week again. The weekends just go by way too fast!
We didn't do much Friday night. Just really hung out at the house-which was really nice. Yesterday I did some cleaning and my hubby had to work the James Lane booth at the Home and Garden Show, so I figured I would tag along and check it out. Abby changed her mind about going and wanted to stay at my Mom's instead. There was not much there so I ended up going shopping while Justin worked. It has been a while since I have been shopping by myself. It was almost a little weird. But it was nice. Good alone time. Today was busy. My Mom came over after breakfast this morning and we ripped out the tile in my bathroom and put new tile in. My Mom did most of the work. I tried to help where I could. We painted and hung up a couple new pics and stuff in there. It looks great. It took forever but we...mostly her...got it all done today! Now on the the next project..It is never ending.
So I have not spoken about any of My Hubby's family drama for quite sometime now but I really have to vent a little. There is only so much a person can take before they blow and well...consider me blown! My husband is one of 4 kids and he has a twin brother...they are NOTHING alike... with that being said there is always some kind of drama going on. That is why we like to steer clear from all that bizz. Anywho here is the deal-Justin's Mother is what I call "a fixer", she has good intentions but it just never seems to work out for the good-they are never fixed. With people never being "fixed" and by people I mean her son-not my husband-this causes her to be an enabler. Her son-not my husband- is a drug addict among many other things and has been for years. I really believe that she thinks that she can "fix" him. Her whole life revolves around him and what she has to do for him or give him. Bless her heart, that is no kind of life for any Mother to live. And it maybe really easy for me to sit here and say cut him the eff off from the money and free range on anything and everything but really when will the time come that you wake up and see that the more you do for him the more your killing him. It is terrible for me to say this but I think that this cycle will continue until he is in jail or dead. They say that people with addictions have to hit rock bottom before they change their ways and everyones rock bottom is different. Well his just may be the death of his self or his mother. It is so sad to me that my Mother in Law has to deal with all this on a daily basis but at the same time it pisses me off because she chooses to let it all go on. I know that this shit goes on everywhere and it is a pretty "normal" thing now days but really when the hell does he plan on getting his shit together. Oh yea, he doesn't have to because his Mother will make sure it is all together for him. As for my husband, his Mom is just pushing him further and further away and I am not even sure if she has a clue what she is doing. When or if she does figure it out Justin may be past all that and it may be to late for him. I know I sounds like I have got this shit all figured out and actually I do. I have dealt with addictions my entire life. My Dad was a drunk from before I was born to the time I was about 13 or 14. I know how all this shit works. It drives me nuts and pisses me off to see my Husband upset about his twin brother being all effed up and that his Mom can't take 30 minutes just to habg out with him because she has some other bullshit to do for the kid that can't do a damn thing for himself. So I am getting to my limit. I think it is just aabout time for me to say a few things that are on my mind. I want my MIL to know that this shit that is going on is NOT normal, even if it has been going on for years. Its time for change. And I am more than ready for it. And I know my Hubby is too. Someone has got to balls up and freaking do something. So I will be all up in the business and will be calling the cops at the drop of a flippin hat to get his ass thrown in jail. I will do this until he is in there for good or moves away. It is time to put your big boy panties on and grow the fuck up!!!!!

Work Day Fun:)

Today was a crazy day at work. First off when I got to work the smell was crazy bad! So one of the girls called her husband to come and check to see if he could find the dead rat. It took him a while, Bless his heart. But he did find it and it was huge! Ewwwww It was so damn gross!! So today my hero was Homer. He came in and saved us from the stinky ass smell!!! We all love him for that!!! After the Drs finished up with their patients we all headed to Branding Iron, which is a great BBQ place to eat at, for Jana's B-day. We have not all been able to go out to eat together in forever!!! It was very nice. I think that we should for sure do it more often! So my day started off pretty stinky:) and just got better through out the day! No more dirty ass smell-Great food with great peeps and I got to see the cutiest lil prego Momma today!!! All in all I would say that is a pretty good day!
Got off work a little after 3 and then went to pick up my sweet baby girl-who at the moment is going through a phase where she does NOT listen-:( So abby ans I spent the evening working on our listening skills!! Yea not so much fun! I can't recall her ever really going through any phases like this....and it is wearing this poor Momma out. Sometimes I am like seriously wondering what happened to my lil sweetie pie! Then she decides to come back to me and all is ok. Oh the joys of parent hood!!! I love it but it can be a bit stressful at times. I never thought that it would be easy, I am just not fully ready for all the attitude business. There is just enough room in this house for my attitude. Haha. Bless her heart. She comes by it right I guess. I guess this would be one of the times I am "payin for my raisin" With that said I will jsut go ahead and say sorry Mom! I love you!!:)

Thankful!!

Wow, what a day! I am really glad this day is over. Nothing bad really happen to me directly but when u have friends that you consider family and something happens with them, that is pretty direct to me. I dont think that you can tell people enough what they mean to you. If it is true and honest, there are never too many I love you's! I am such a hugger and I always tell my fam I love them everytime I see or talk to them on the phone. I know that not every family is like that but we are and I love it that way. I am a very lucky woman to have such great family and friends. And I love them all very much!! With that said, I am gonna try and get some sleep.
So thankful my friend made it home safe tonight!!!

Tuesday

I am more than ready for Spring time. Wehave had such beautiful weather and here we are back with all this coldness!! I am not enjoying this at all!!! Can we please bring on the Spring and Summer weather....like NOW please!!!!! Man I think I have been on hold at work alllllll day long. That makes for a realllllllllly long day. Blahh. I hope that this afternoon goes by faster than this morning has! Oh yea our office smells like shit....why you ask??? Well there is a freaking dead rat in the flippin attic!!! Ewwwww. It is bad. I think that this is some karma that just found its way back to me. This weekend my Mom and I went to the Dollar Store to pick up a few things and they had the door open. Well I assumed (which you should never do) that the door was open because of the wonderfully great weather. Ummm yea not so much. I think a big ass family of rats died up in there and it was the worst smell ever!! And me being me, I could not keep my mouth shut about it. I have a hard time thinking before I speak.;) So thanks karma for allowing me to smell this nasty ass smell all the day!!!!!!

Wonderful Day:)

I had a super wonderful day! I went to work for about an hour and a half and then left to meet up with my fam. My Mom, Abby, Memaw, Aunt Anissa, Aunt Kathleen and I all went to Lawton and did some shopping. We had so much fun! We shopped then went to eat then shopped some more!! I just love spending time with my wonderful fam!!! So back to work in the morning and I will be working a full day!:) I am very thankful that I have a boss that feels the same way I do about family or else I would not have gotten to spend the day with the girls on such a short notice.:) I am very blessed!!!